BORN: Monday January 22, 1962 DIED: Tuesday January 26, 2010
SERVICE
Sunday January 31, 2010
4:00 PM
Rest Haven Funeral Home - Rowlett Chapel
3701 Rowlett Rd.
Rowlett,
TX
75088
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VISITATION
Saturday January 30, 2010
4:00 PM to
6:00 PM
Rest Haven Funeral Home - Rowlett Chapel
3701 Rowlett Rd.
Rowlett,
TX
75088
Map
Brenda Michele Lane, age 48 of Rowlett, TX, passed away January 26, 2010. She was born January 22, 1962, in Portland, OR, to Donald and Darlene (Brinkman) Holmes. A waitress by trade, Brenda had the gift of gab and was always talking to someone and loved to help those in need. She was an avid crossword puzzle solver and especially enjoyed Friday night bowling. She also enjoyed hunting and fishing with her husband, so much so that she went with him one snowy Christmas Day. Brenda loved her family and adored her grandchildren, and she was loved by all.
Brenda is survived by her husband: Robert Lane; daughters: Jennifer and Jessica Lane; sons: Robert Jr. and Jeffrey Lane; grandchildren: Destiny, Dylan and Raygan; sisters: Pam, Debbie and Cheryl; brother: Mark; mother: Darlene Elam and husband Scotty; father: Donald Holmes and wife Jo Ann; father- and mother-in-law: Bob and Mel Lane.
Funeral services will be held 4:00pm Sunday, January 31, 2010, at Rest Haven Funeral Home-Rowlett Chapel with Dr. Aubrey Patterson officiating. Interment at a later date will be in Rockwall Memorial Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the funeral home Saturday from 4:00 to 6:00pm.
Why did she have to go
So young I just don't know why
Things happen half the time
Without reason without rhyme
Lovely, sweet young woman
Daughter, wife and mother
Makes no sense to me
I just have to believe
She flew up to Heaven on the wings of angels
By the clouds and stars and passed where no one sees
And she walks with Jesus and her loved ones waiting
And I know she's smiling saying
Don't worry 'bout me
Loved ones she left behind
Just trying to survive
And understand the why
Feeling so lost inside
Anger shot straight at God
Then asking for His love
Empty with disbelief
Just hoping that maybe
She flew up to Heaven on the wings of angels
By the clouds and stars and passed where no one sees
And she walks with Jesus and her loved ones waiting
And I know she's smiling saying
Don't worry 'bout me
It's hard to say goodbye
Her picture in my mind
Will always be of times I'll cherish
And I won't cry 'cause
She flew up to Heaven on the wings of angels
By the clouds and stars and passed where no one sees
And she walks with Jesus and her loved ones waiting
And I know she's smiling saying
Don't worry 'bout me
Don't worry 'bout me
Don`t worry 'bout me
Sent by: Johnna Strength
02-04-2010
Brenda (my baby sister). Through God I want you to know how much we all loved you and with his graces you are safe now with no worries. Your smile, sense of humor and the love you gave to your family and friends will live on forever! I will always love you!!! Pam
Sent by: Pamela
02-03-2010
Brenda was a daughter, a sister and a wonderful person who will be missed very, very much. We love you girl.
Sent by: Debbie Holmes
02-03-2010
I love you very much Aunt Brenda and will always think of you when I make mashed potates. I am glad you are at peace now. You will forever live on in all our hearts.
Sent by: Johnna Strength
01-31-2010
The DasH
I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral
of his friend,
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning to the end.
He noted that first came the date of his birth
and spoke of the second with tears,
but he said that what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that was spent alive on earth,
And now only those who loved him
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own,
the cars, the house, the cash.
what matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard,
are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
you could be at “Dash Mid-Range”.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and what’s real
and always try to understand the way
other people feel.
And…be less quick to anger, and show
appreciation more, and love the people in our lives
like we never loved before. If we treat each other
with respect, and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash might only last
a little while,
So when your eulogy is being read with
your life’s actions to rehash would you be pleased
with the things they say about
you spent your dash?
The DasH
I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral
of his friend,
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning to the end.
He noted that first came the date of his birth
and spoke of the second with tears,
but he said that what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that was spent alive on earth,
And now only those who loved him
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own,
the cars, the house, the cash.
what matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard,
are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
you could be at “Dash Mid-Range”.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and what’s real
and always try to understand the way
other people feel.
And…be less quick to anger, and show
appreciation more, and love the people in our lives
like we never loved before. If we treat each other
with respect, and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash might only last
a little while,
So when your eulogy is being read with
your life’s actions to rehash would you be pleased
with the things they say abouthow
you spent your dash?
The DasH
I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral
of his friend,
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning to the end.
He noted that first came the date of his birth
and spoke of the second with tears,
but he said that what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that was spent alive on earth,
And now only those who loved him
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own,
the cars, the house, the cash.
what matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard,
are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
you could be at “Dash Mid-Range”.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and what’s real
and always try to understand the way
other people feel.
And…be less quick to anger, and show
appreciation more, and love the people in our lives
like we never loved before. If we treat each other
with respect, and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash might only last
a little while,
So when your eulogy is being read with
your life’s actions to rehash would you be pleased
with the things they say abouthow
you spent your dash?
how
Sent by: Ronda Ryan
01-29-2010
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother, daughter in law, Grandmother.
Please know that my tho't and prayers are with all of you.
I love you,
Your cousin,
Margaret Ayres
Sent by: Margaret Ayres
01-29-2010
Brenda will be dearly missed.
Brenda and I shared our birthday this passed Friday and it will be one I will never forget.
We know there are no words to make things easier. But please know our hearts are with you. The heart never forgets all the wonderful things shared.